You’ve spent years trying to hold it together.
Doing the “right” things.
Checking the boxes.
Showing up while quietly shutting down.

You look capable on the outside.
But inside? It’s chaos.

Your thoughts race. Tasks pile up.
You forget things, mask your reactions, smile while falling apart.

And still, you wonder:
​“Why can’t I just get it together like everyone else?”​
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I still wrestle with it—
the frustration, the burnout, the shame.

I’m still unlearning the lie that I’m just bad at being human.

But slowly, I’ve realized:
I’m not broken.
I’m just built different.

ADHD. Autism.

I self-diagnosed at 40+ after one too many late-night doom scrolls.
The official ADHD diagnosis came soon after.
Autism testing is next—but it’s already clear.

Outside, I’m a capable single mom with a steady job.
Inside? I’m exhausted, anxious, overwhelmed—
bored out of my mind doing work that drains me but barely pays the bills.

Now I have a name for it: neurodivergence.​
It was a relief—and a bomb.

The truth didn’t land softly.
But it landed honestly.

I wasn't the problem

I was adapting to a world that never made space for me.

Now, I'm reclaiming the parts I had to hide to survive.

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🖤 That’s why I’m building UNMSQD.

Not just a clothing brand.

A declaration. A rebellion. A reset.

UNMSQD is identity-first streetwear for neurodivergent women—

especially those diagnosed late and just beginning to learn the importance of unmasking.

For the ones called too much, not enough, always behind—

In reality: there was no space made for them on the boat,
they were drowning with no shore in sight,
and struggling to just breathe.

We design for awareness and self-acceptance.

Comfort without compromise.

And style that lets you hold and take up space unapologetically.​
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🎁 Start Here — A Free Gift While You Wait for Launch

“10 Signs You Were Masking (and Didn’t Know It)”​
A compassionate guide for women who’ve felt “too much” or “not enough” and are beginning to realize they were never broken, just masked.

This isn’t a checklist—it’s a validation tool for late-diagnosed women learning to unmask and come home to themselves.

Inside, you’ll find:

• What masking really means
• 10 signs you may have been masking for years
• Reassurance that your struggles are survival, not failure
• A gentle reminder that unmasking means becoming real

✅ Digital + print-ready
✅ Sensory-considerate design and fonts
✅ Written by someone living it, not just studying it

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This is Identity.

Refusing to perform for a world that never asked the right questions.

You’re not too sensitive.
You’re not dramatic.
You’re not lazy.

You’re neurodivergent—and finally awake.

So now what?

You rebuild.
You unmask.
You wear your truth like a banner.

UNMSQD is here for that journey.​
Not the diagnosis — the becoming.

👉 [Get My Free Gift]​
And we’ll let you know when the next drop is live.